We made changes immediately. We added motion sensors. We gently kept Emily’s door closed at night. We moved Margaret’s room closer to ours. Most importantly, we made sure she was never alone in the way she had been before.
Every evening, I began spending time with her before bed. We talked. Sometimes she told stories from decades ago. Sometimes she repeated the same memory three times in a row. I listened every time.
She wasn’t searching for a place to sleep.
She was searching for safety. For familiarity. For the warmth of a child she had once held every night when the world felt uncertain.
Emily’s bed had never been too small.
It had simply made room for an old woman who was slowly losing her sense of time, but not her need for love.
That experience changed how I see aging. How I see family. How I see responsibility.
Sometimes children tell us the truth before we are ready to hear it. Sometimes what sounds strange or inconvenient is actually a quiet call for compassion.
My daughter sleeps peacefully now.
And my mother-in-law does too.
Because no one should have to wander alone in the dark, searching for a memory of comfort they once gave so freely.
