While science hasn’t fully explained this phenomenon, researchers suggest several theories:
Neurological Changes: As the brain begins to shut down, especially due to decreased oxygen or changes in blood flow, visual and sensory hallucinations can occur.
Spiritual Beliefs: Many families interpret these actions as signs that the patient is seeing loved ones waiting for them on the other side.
Psychological Comfort: Whether real or imagined, these visions may offer emotional closure or reassurance during the transition from life to death.
Regardless of interpretation, healthcare professionals agree: these moments should not be dismissed or corrected.
Instead, they should be honored.
Why It Matters
Watching a loved one reach up in their final hours can be confusing or even unsettling to those unfamiliar with the process. But for those who understand, it’s a sign that the person may be entering the final stage of life.
Katie emphasizes that these moments don’t signal pain or fear—they often reflect comfort and connection.
“It’s one of the more mysterious aspects of death that we’re lucky enough to witness as caregivers. It’s humbling,” she says.
Families who recognize this gesture can find solace in knowing their loved one may be experiencing something peaceful—perhaps even transcendent.
Real Stories Shared Online
Since Duncan’s TikTok was posted, many viewers have commented with their own stories, confirming that this phenomenon is far from rare.
One commenter wrote:
“My dad reached up with both arms. Before that, he hadn’t been able to lift them at all.”
Another said:
“It’s the in-between. What a privilege to witness.”
And another added:
